Luckily this one is a bit lighter on the pocketbook, until you get into espresso.
Then you're screwed. You end up spending nights trying to figure out the best grind, tamp pressure, and blend.
As for the women-folk:
One sip of home roasted coffee and the girlfriend said
"You can do whatever you want and spend whatever on cigars, if you keep supplying me with this coffee."
It's like a drug, and I've got her hooked. She gets pissed wen I go on business trips and forget to roast enough.
Sorry for the threadkjack, back to the topic:
http://www.coffeeemergency.com/ is also well regarded, especially for their espresso blends.