I think I was fortunate to be handed a briar to start....even though that was something of a challenge to learn, too.
But, I received a cob in my noob trade and it has been somewhat painful. I will try the 'gentle approach' and give it another go. Aside from getting it too hot, too fast, I have a lot of problem with sucking tobacco, or more often...and much worse, ash, up the stem. I have not done much studying yet, and know I've got a lot to learn, so pardon the noob question....do you use some sort of filter with a corn cob pipe? Seems like that might solve some of my problems, but a quick search yielded too much 'noise'.
Do you use a filter with cob pipes? Other pipes? If so, what sort of filter(s)?