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Mitch

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I've been watching and enjoyed the recent threads on defensive tactic for a while and I guess have become motivated to write a small novel about my options on training as a whole.

Back before I gave up my MP-5/M-16 for a pair of golden handcuffs and a computer terminal, I made my living as a soldier, MP & Cop, executive protection specialist and trainer. So to say that I have options and can write some essays on these topics, is an understatement. Anyway, let me bring up a topic that I’ve spent countless hours debating with many professionals over the years. This is just my opinion and there is a multibillion dollar industry that doesn’t agree with me, so take it with a grain of salt.

There is a lot of good information here, but I'm not as sold on the firearm, knife, baton, hand to hand stuff taught in one time short classes as most are. I was a certified PPCT (Police) instructor and sole tactics instructor at my last military base to MP’s, react forces, SRT, etc. I earned black belts in judo and ju-jitsu when I was younger and competed seriously, so it’s not that I’m not a martial artist. Before an injury took me out of Special Warfare I had been part of the first gulf war, invaded Panama… well you get the ideal. And in all that I never found the real world examples that people could go to a day long, couple day long or week long training course and develop the muscle memory and finite motor skills to use when the proverbial impact of the fan occurred.

Don’t think I’m putting down getting training, I’m not, I strongly advocate it. But, I’m saying that training people who do not have a good foundation in fighting has marginal benefit at best and even if they have a foundation it only has benefit if it becomes part of a routine. This is in regard to physical skills, mental skills are a whole different category and bode very well with short term courses as long as they become part of routine.

As a cop (MP and reservist on local PD) I rarely saw people use the take downs, arm locks, pressure points, PR-24 skills etc when a use of force situation came up. Choke holds became head locks, a PR-24 became a baseball bat and take downs became tackles. The exception were a very few officers that had years of training in martial arts and usually were still active with a martial arts club and likely had incorporated the techniques into their style and developed the muscle memory to do them at their club.

My general opinion is that if you take a bunch of well motivated people and drill them hard for a weekend, most will be able to walk fairly quietly with balance and navigate corners, stairs, logs etc. by the end of it. But, if they don't practice it and make it part of their routine, it will be gone quickly as several studies document. Getting them to fight with a knife, disarm an attacker etc. is a pipe dream. And since most classes spend about half an hour on each skill, your chance of doing any at all well is slimmer yet.

So, I advocate that for the average person (like my wife) who is not, and has not been, a professional and needs to develop defense skills they are far better off learning skills that they can practice every day. Leaving their physical skill development to long term programs like martial arts clubs, shooting clubs and the like. Even if you never develop any hand to hand skills and only marginal firearm skills, you can teach yourself to remain alert, be aware of reactionary gap (how close you let others get to you, or how close you get to areas that people could pop out of and suprise you), be aware of cover and concealment, plan exit strategies for the places you go and repeated what if scenarios routinely.

So if you’re sitting in a restraint, walking to your car, leaving work, going to the supermarket, etc. you should be asking yourself, where are the exits, what is cover, what is concealment, figuring out a plan for as many different scenario’s as you can come up with and discussing with your family what you should do in each situation. My wife and I do this, one will just ask the other where the cover and exits are, and without looking we try to remember what we have to use around us. Then we'll talk about what could happen and possible reactions to it. If it’s dark and we are in a area not so great, we walk a bit further away from each other so you can’t surprise both of us easily. We carry firearms most of the time, we carry a knife almost always, and I’m a big strong fairly bad ass guy, but it’s our offensive approach to defense that I think serves us best.

And if you want to learn point shooting, put a laser on a handgun and practice pointing the unloaded weapon at anything and everything in your house and hitting the laser to see how you did. In a matter of weeks you will be able to bulls eye wall sockets, light switches, door knobs and a person in near total darkness if you need to. I’ve been to several point shooting classes and none of them worked as well as this.

It’s getting into another topic, but I believe everyone should have a vest and shotgun/carbine at home with a good light and laser/night sights/dot sight on it. If you property is large you should have radios with ear buds as well.

Everyone who can carry out of the house should do so with a handgun with night sights and have a very good light as well.

And where you can't carry a handgun or if you can’t carry a handgun you should have a knife and very good light.

Every house and/or car that could have a firearm left unattended in it should have a gun safe, cabinet or lock box bolted to something solid.

My rant has ended, now what would you do right now if an office worker went postal, a home invasion started, etc.?
 
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Lauderdale must be getting pretty rough. haha!

I agree with you for the most part. It's good to know what to do if something happens, not just freak out. I don't pack heat, but I'm not opposed to it.
 

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Our main reason for the carry permits is you never have time to get them when the time comes up, like when a storm has power and phone lines out and every cop is on traffic duty not patrol.

My wife is the one who started to carry every day, I just followed suit because I couldn't stand the idea of her protecting me and if I took her gun away to handle a situation, I'd never hear the end of it.
 
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Amen Brother. I've tried a few times to explain to people that the way you describe is the way I naturally think all the time about everything. I almost feel like the WOPR from the movie Wargames for those who have long memories (though I hear they are making a sequel, it will probably suck). My mind is constantly running scenarios for everything. Not just self defense wise but in in every conceivable way. What if that car door opens on the right there? What if this check I am depositing bounces? What if my dog starts throwing up? What if this really important email I am sending bounces and never gets delivered? I've had people comment many times on the fact that I am rarely ever thrown for a loop when something comes up unexpectedly. That's because somewhere at some point, my mind probably thought up that scenario so it's not a complete surprise to me. A couple of my favorite examples....

Back when I was in my early twenties I was home from college visiting the folks. My parents, a couple of friends of theirs, and myself all decided to go to a somewhat nearby Indian Casino and to throw some money away and have a good time. It's kind of a windy 2 lane road through the hills to get there and I am driving. I see a semi truck with a big muddy backhoe parked on it's trailer coming toward me in the other lane. As the semi gets close, a rock comes flying up off the back tires of the trailer heading straight at my face. Instead of panicking and swerving (a dangerous proposition on a narrow 2 lane road in the hills with a cliff on my right and a semi on my left) I let off the gas and turn my face away from where the rock is about to hit the windshield. BOOM! Glass splinters rain down inside the car from the windshield breaking up. Everyone is screaming. I remain calm and drive the van another half mile or so to a turnout making as few and as small movements as possible to limit cuts from the glass that is literally covering me from my knees on up to my head and face. I gingerly step out of the car and shake the glass loose and find a brush to get it out of my clothes as much as possible. This all happened in the space of about 90 seconds. My parents couldn't believe it (once they had calmed down) and their friend was just in shock. I truly believe that if any of them had been driving, that would have been a much worse day for all of us. But because my mind is always thinking through scenarios I was able to come up with a plan to deal with this nearly instantaneously.

I wish I could go into more detail for this example, but I can't. At a previous employer I was working on a rather time sensitive project with my team. Over the course of about 3 hours, the project went through three major overhauls to get it to work. Each time, a major roadblock was discovered making our planned approach to the problem impossible. And each time, I was able to quickly and efficiently lead the team toward a new approach. We managed to get it working within the budgeted time, but just barely and with about 5 time as much work as we expected to have to put in. I was later given a commendation and spot bonus for my quick thinking under pressure. That was one of the proudest moments of my life and I owed it all to my unceasing little brain.

There are lots of smaller examples related to avoiding car accidents and getting out of what could have been sticky situations. Between luck, thinking ahead, and just being generally observant, I've saved myself a lot of trouble over the years.

Wow this post turned out much longer than I originally intended.... oh well. Guess I didn't think ahead enough before writing this post:tonguerol
 

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i hear you Mitch... i once used an upper cut, and my LT asked me, "since when did D-tacks teach you to use an upper cut?" as for the baseball bat, uhm, rodney king?

gotta keep your brain in the game! becomes much, uhm, easier with continued exposure!
 

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Good points...I do the point shooting with laser sights drill all the time (drives my cats NUTS!) and it works. I start from any point in the house and go through, stopping at each new area and pick out cover (not much with today's construction!) and concealment, measure distance, see what line of sight options there are, etc. I also know from this what I cannot see from any point in the house. I also do it at night with a light. I'm very confident inside my home.

Same outside the home. Slow walk arounds tell me, "Okay, from this point, I'm good with the 12 gauge out to here...with the rifle, out to there...move 20 feet to the right and I can now see another 100 yards...at night my flashlight can illuminate to that fence, but not to that tree, etc. What others may see as paranoia, just seems like good sense to me.

Situational awareness drills while out in public or in traffic are fun and they keep your mind sharp. How many road rage reports do you see where the victim says that they are hemmed in by traffic at a stop light and couldn't move while some pissed-off dude is stomping towards their car with a bat? Situational awareness will help to keep you from getting into those tight spots where you're stuck before you know it.
 

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Cool. I thought i was jsut a freak for thinkin aobut all that stuff all the time.

I need to get a handgun and lasers.
 

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OH, and my favorite line from that rant...

"I'm a big strong fairly bad ass guy"

Classic.

Not to be f#@ked with.
 

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Mitch, good stuff. I agree with you and think very much along the same lines. When I starting putting together my Modern Combative System I wanted to have up to four hour street awarness classes up to three day intensive force on force courses.

Our physical courses are built on a standard you are familiar with, crawl, walk, run. We try not to jam too much into a class. One day is the alphabet, the second you write sentences and the third paragraphs. The vast majority have no interest in anything beyond the alphabet.

Our open hand rolls into stick which rolls into edged weapons. When the base is standard it is easier to build on.

It should also be noted that the vast majority of customers are not trigger pullers but professionals who realize the need to protect themselves and family.
 

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Well, I constantly work with my guys in every aspect of personal protection, slef defense, mind awareness and the will to survive. BY maintaining their skills with constant practice (Shooting, grappling, pr-24, etc) they create a mindset to survive any situation. As for a self defense style, I instill upon them learning many different styles of combat. Knowing different techniques, mastering them and using them will keep them alife when they are in a fight with multiple suspects and backup rolling on the other side of town.

FYI, I have also worked as an MP (USMC), personal pretection, dignitary protection and currently in LE.

Working in the ghetto is constantly a battlle of survival.
 

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OK, if we ever have a herf in a third world county I elect Mitch, mercop and Angry Bill to be hosts.

We def have some impressive talent here on BOTL!!
 

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Well stated Mitch. I try to explain these important steps to the wifey and she thinks I am a little freaky. I am a licensed CCW holder and carry my H&K USP Comp when ever possible. I have a laser sight and sure fire ececutive along for the ride. Always taking inventory of things and happenings all around.

Thanks for affirming that I am not too freaky about my & our security AT ALL TIMES!!
 

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I would be on that like a hobo on a ham sandwhich
that could be some party. Ybor city, Cuban Sandwiches, Mojitos, The Wing House, some nice beaches, and some good knife and stick training to fill in the gaps between the cigars, food, and drinks.
 
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