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Luke
Sorry to hear brother. Doesnt make a guy feel very good.
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Wow, my life got turned upside down today...
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Man this shit sucks. However it would appear that the universe is tak8ng care of you. If ya need to bend an ear pm me I have been through this too and came out much stronger for it
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Goose, I'm a single parent - so there's an obvious difference in situation here - but aside from anything that relates to my kiddo, the absolute worst part of being single is that I have to do my own dishes and vacuum my own floors... Which isn't really a big deal, is it...?
Here, let me share my favorite fairy tale with you (BOTL version):
Once upon a time, a guy asked a girl to marry him. She said "No!" So he hung out with his friends, and went to sports bars and cigar lounges, and drank lots of beer, and smoked lots of cigars, and kept his humidors wherever he wanted to, and rode his motorcycle, and played video games, and went hunting and fishing, and ate pizza for breakfast, and played guitar as loud as he wanted, and watched lots of sports on TV, and belched and farted whenever he felt like it, and left the toilet seat up, and did whatever the hell he wanted, and he lived happily ever after. The End.
So yeah, I know it's rough and it does take a little time to get used to it... but, I gather that you're in your early 20's, right? You've got a LOT of good years ahead of you, brother. Might seem hard to do right now, but enjoy it.
Here, let me share my favorite fairy tale with you (BOTL version):
Once upon a time, a guy asked a girl to marry him. She said "No!" So he hung out with his friends, and went to sports bars and cigar lounges, and drank lots of beer, and smoked lots of cigars, and kept his humidors wherever he wanted to, and rode his motorcycle, and played video games, and went hunting and fishing, and ate pizza for breakfast, and played guitar as loud as he wanted, and watched lots of sports on TV, and belched and farted whenever he felt like it, and left the toilet seat up, and did whatever the hell he wanted, and he lived happily ever after. The End.
So yeah, I know it's rough and it does take a little time to get used to it... but, I gather that you're in your early 20's, right? You've got a LOT of good years ahead of you, brother. Might seem hard to do right now, but enjoy it.
I'm thankful it happened already. She was the only reason I didn't do so many things I dreamed about doing. I had resigned myself to living to make her happy, now I get to live to make me happy.
Sorry about what happened man. But once I saw weed smoking hippy, I can tell great things are to come. Especially is she's attractive
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Like Cigary and the others said... better now than later ! Heck I'm in my second marriage and it's great ! And I've had two broken engagements in the middle... they turned into assholes ! And no way was I making that (first marriage ) mistake again ! You ducked one, Goosie ! Smoke a cigar , Boss !
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Lee-Hair-Oh
Sorry to hear about that brother. Keep your head up, and keep us posted on your progress.
memphsdad
But I don't live in Memphis
Sounds like this woman wants the....too soon?
Let me know when you hit the bay area man, we'll put a herf together.
AlohaStyle
BoM Sept '12 & Aug '13
Definitely sorry to hear man, that is never an easy thing to go through. But sounds like you got the right mindset thinking she held you back from doing things you have wanted to. You are only 22/23 yrs old, your life is just starting man. Enjoy the journey.
Before you make your final decision about San Fran, just make sure you know it's one of the most expensive cities to live in. Make sure you research the area, living, etc before making the move. I do love the City, but just make sure it can work out. Seattle is a great City too... tons of things to do.
Before you make your final decision about San Fran, just make sure you know it's one of the most expensive cities to live in. Make sure you research the area, living, etc before making the move. I do love the City, but just make sure it can work out. Seattle is a great City too... tons of things to do.
I LOVE Seattle. That's my ultimate goal, San Jose would just be an intermediary step in the right direction.
I would move straight to Seattle today if I had any prospects there other than a cousin with an established family. If you know anyone up there who's hiring let me know.
Update:
Last night I had the most fun I've had in a long time.
I made friends who share my interests for the first time in 8 years. I stayed out all night drinking and smoking, we all ended up just hanging out at the cigar shop until 6am. I never had time for friends before, this is fuckin awesome.
Also I'm taking my neurotic 40 lb dog to meet her big 100+lb dogs tonight to see if they get along...
Wish us luck.
Last night I had the most fun I've had in a long time.
I made friends who share my interests for the first time in 8 years. I stayed out all night drinking and smoking, we all ended up just hanging out at the cigar shop until 6am. I never had time for friends before, this is fuckin awesome.
Also I'm taking my neurotic 40 lb dog to meet her big 100+lb dogs tonight to see if they get along...
Wish us luck.
I was just about to say how sorry I was to hear the news but seems like your going to be ok!
Were here for you in case but sounds like things are going well.
