So some of you know I have been busting my ass to get my house ready for the appraiser all month so we could re-finance but it seems you have to default on your mortgage for anyone to help you. I put a lot of time and energy into getting my house ready with the assumption it would go through and we would save a good chunk of money each month but it didn't, not that we didn't need to do the work anyway we just wouldn't have done it right now because we couldn't afford it. So needless to say I want to load my truck up with diesel and fertilizer and drive it through the mortgage office but I wont because I can't afford a new truck and I need to get to WORK!