Working for Jean Georges, have eaten at some places that I probably wouldn't have if I didn't. French Laundry is always excellent. I've eaten at his other 2 places up in Napa and wasn't impressed though at either Ad Hoc or Bouchon, not bad but just not up to par with FL. Inn at Little Washington is local and totally overrated IMO. Its very old school, food is fine but very "been there, done that" and expensive. They need to go through the whole place and give it a good cleanup. For the rooms, the price isn't worth the whole experience. I too am not into the whole molecular gastronomy thing. When I eat, I want to be satisfied, not try to figure out "hmm was that foie gras in that puff of smoke I just inhaled?" That being said, next time I'm in Chitown, I will check out Alinea as I've heard good things about it from a few colleagues.
Anyway, my list would be
1-Noma
2-Daniel in NYC
3-Alinea
Oh and El Bulli closes early July this year. G1