Two things I feel the need to add:
1- Bouchon makes amazing, relatively affordable, French Bistro-style food. It cannot be compared to The French Laundry. Originally Thomas Keller opened it to have a place for his cooks and cooks from surrounding restaurants to go after a hard night of cooking. As a chef I can relate. After closing the kitchen there is nowhere to go. Bouchon is a gem of a place for oysters, great wines, desserts, trout amandine, and the best- best gnocchi dishes I have ever had...I can't wait to go back!
2- 'Molecular Gastronomy' can be way overdone, just like most things, but at Alinea you will go through a rollercoaster of emotions, tastes, smells, and sights. The techniques used add to the experience of it all- not take the place of dining and eating. Give it a shot, it is now ranked #7 in the world for a reason...