For all of you trying to lose weight, I feel for you. Congratulations on your success so far. You can do it, so don't give up.
My story, if anyone is interested. In 2003, I was at 280 lbs. Tried to diet, but could not keep to any. I finally read Dr. Atkin's book a couple times from cover to cover, and it made sense. In June of '03, may wife and I started a strict Atkin's induction diet. Eggs for breakfast, sometimes with bacon. A salad for lunch with lean protein, and no sugar dressings. Two cups of low carb vegetables for dinner, with a lean protein. No sugars, no starches, no grains whatsoever. Sometimes we'd have a dessert, sometimes not. We learned to make flax muffins, sugar free cheesecake, sugar free creams pies, even cakes and pies using flax meal, protein powder, and fats. For sweeteners, we used a combination of pure liquid sucralose (sucralose packets are mostly corn sugar), erythritol and xylitol.
By the end of the year I was down to 180 lbs. (100 lbs. in 6 months), and my wife had gone from a size 18, to a size 5. When I changed to Atkin's maintenance, I quickly gained 10 lbs., but I maintained my weight at 190 lbs. for over 10 years.
The biggest mistake I made, was to include soy products in my weight loss regiment and maintenance. Raw and/or processed soy is pure poison. I first developed a soy allergy, which cascaded into gluten, nut, legume, corn, chocolate and caffeine allergies. I also have problems with foods that contain potato starch, and most gums/thickeners. Since I have had to change my eating habits, I've put on 33 lbs.
So, I have 33 lbs. to lose, and this thread may just be the kick in the butt I needed to get serious, and drop the weight.