I am mostly a happily married man for the last 12 years. Wife and I have a honest relationship. I want help and honest advise here to keep this marriage. I have been seriously buying cigars really just this year. She know I buy cigars and she know I have some boxes as well at work. What she does not know is that I have a 28 bottle wine cooler which is full and another 55qt cooler almost full as well. Were talking roughly 30+ boxes here. NONE of which I have told her, NONE of which she has asked any questions. I feel bad that I have not told her. Everything is at my work, just far enough away for her to not be able to visit. The credit card bills have been paid from extra money I make from sales bonuses, or sales expenses, or extra money. Recently this credit card bill has not been able to be paid off, but is mostly manageable At the same time I bitch at her for spending $50 bucks at the mall for herself or our child, even if the purchase is necessary.
My dilemma is I want to bring the wine cooler, cooler, and cigars home and not leave them at the office anymore. I would feel better and safer in my home down in the basement. Oh and she and child are going to the beach Monday thru Wednesday while I will be home alone.
So I ask for your opinions and answer the poll if you wish. Not looking for a bashing here. Just ideas and what if situations that I may not have thought of.
Thanks, Steve
My dilemma is I want to bring the wine cooler, cooler, and cigars home and not leave them at the office anymore. I would feel better and safer in my home down in the basement. Oh and she and child are going to the beach Monday thru Wednesday while I will be home alone.
So I ask for your opinions and answer the poll if you wish. Not looking for a bashing here. Just ideas and what if situations that I may not have thought of.
Thanks, Steve